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Ebook About The long-standing war between the sexes is the stuff of legend. In TV ads, sitcoms and chick flicks everywhere, we've all seen the images - the long suffering woman and the clueless, insensitive man.But what if it's all a misunderstanding?In this fairy tale for the contemporary woman, Kimberlee seeks advice and discovers a treasure chest of esoteric knowledge hidden within her own family. As she unravels the mysteries of men's behavior in this romantic journey, so will you. As she learns the Language of Heroes, and transforms how she relates to men, so will you.Whether you're in love with men or frustrated by them - or both - The Queen's Code creates a new ethic and approach for interacting with men in a way that honors both sexes. From eight distinct points-of-view, you'll get an intimate look inside the hearts and minds of both men and women as westruggle to understand ourselves and each other.More information, videos, and more at www.QueensCode.com*DOES NOT INCLUDE ACCESS TO THE QUEEN'S CODE ONLINE E-READER*Book The Queen's Code Review :
This book may have *saved my relationship* within 8 hours of my starting the book, and I'm only 15% of the way through it!!First, let me qualify my background, and why I bought this book:I'm an expert on men.No, really.Oh sure, lots of people may say that, but I actually mean that I am a professional expert on men. No, I'm not a lady of the evening, I'm something much lower than that - I'm a lawyer. In fact, I was one of the very first fathers' rights lawyers in the United States, with a career spanning about 30 years working with single fathers, and a *lot* of that was counselling and coaching them. So, I got, very early on, how men communicate, filter, react, share, bottle up (did I mention react) *much* differently than women, and how the translation that takes place between "she speaks, he hears" and "he speaks, she hears" is *so very vital to understand*! (Oh yeah, I'm also an author of a book on men - and coach about the differences between men and women - specifically for single fathers.)I'm also very familiar with what our society is doing to our boys (and causing our women and girls to do to our boys - have you ever seen the "Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them" products? No? Here you go: Boys Are Stupid Throw Rocks At Them t-shirt Think you could get away with a "girls are stupid, throw rocks at them" product line?)I actually heard about this book from a friend who was basically mocking it. That made me curious, so I came to Amazon to look it up. And, based on my work with men, and advocacy for boys, when I saw *men* posting reviews, saying things like "I have to say that this book blew my mind. Having a feminist mother and growing up in a time when men have been looked down upon for being men, I grew up knowing masculine shame," I knew I had to get it and read it.I have to tell you it was *so* refreshing to read another woman who gets it! And who gets that by trying to make men be like women we are not only doing a disservice to men, and screwing up our boys, but that we are doing a disservice to *ourselves* (women). By *honouring* the differences, it allows men to also honour *our* differences.But much more importantly, in this book Armstrong really explains how what we do to men is causing *us* (again, women) so much frustration, resentment, and anger, and robbing us of the joy *we ourselves* can experience.No, this is *not* a Dr. Laura-esque "wrap yourself in saran wrap and submit to your man" book. Not at all. It's a "understand the differences, and speak to his strengths instead of bitching about his weaknesses - which are often *your* perception of 'weakness', and not really a weakness at all - it's a *difference*" book.(Ok, I feel like I'm getting on a soapbox now...let me climb back down (I'm only 5'3, so I need that soapbox).)What is interesting about this book is that rather than a typical "do this, do that" tome, it's a narrative told in the form of a story. Sure, some of it is a little hokey ("frog farmer"? Really?) but the brilliance of this is that it gets the point across in a way that isn't all "do this, do that" or preachy.So, I got the book last night, and started reading it. I got about 15% of the way through (got the Kindle edition, that's how I know). Then I put out the light and went to sleep.This morning, I had a conversation with TMWMITU (The Most Wonderful Man in the Universe). It was a conversation - about a potentially touchy subject - which could have gone very, *very* wrong. But, as the conversation was unfolding I suddenly remembered the things I'd read last night...and ohmygod...this was *exactly* that sort of situation. So I took a deep breath, and practiced what I'd read just 8 hours earlier. Which blew me away because, in case I haven't mentioned it, I've been working in this field for nearly 30 years. But that's the magic of this book - you read it like a story, and it sticks in your head for when you need it.And guess what? ...TAHDAH! What *could* have been an awful, even relationship-ending conversation, instead went down the path of a *fantastic* conversation, with a wonderful resolution, and me feeling closer to him and happier than ever! (Now, wouldn't you like to feel that way?? If your answer is "no", then I submit that you need this book even more, because you may well be holding on to a lot of resentment, and self-righteous anger.)Because this book is truly right in my own wheelhouse of my expertise, I sincerely invite any of you to drop me a line (click on my name and "see more" to find my email address) and ask me any question that you may have, and that you think I could be helpful in answering. I would not recommend this book to anyone, so let me save you some time and money. You should know that my girlfriend/partner of five years and I read this book together upon a friend’s recommendation. My girlfriend and I have many years of collective experience with past relationships. We have also studied a few other books on relationships that are actually well-researched. We could have not been more disappointed with The Queen's Code.The main problem is not with Alison Armstrong’s horrible writing, as others have noted in their reviews; it is with her antiquated and often strange view of men and women. The author makes many sweeping generalizations, sometimes by implication, that undercut her good ideas.Here are some highly questionable ideas:Women are to blame for men's bad behavior. (???)Men objectify women as a defense for being emasculated by women's overpowering sexuality. (???)Women emasculate men as often as men objectify women. (???)Men have such a singular focus that their immediate needs for food and sex should be accepted by women. (???)Women should *not* strongly agree or aggressively disagree with their male partners. (???)Women should *not* be too accountable for others, because that is a man's domain. (???)The ideas above are questionable in part because they place too much of the responsibility of maintaining the relationship on the woman. We can only work toward gender equality if men and women respect each other as equals.And here are some good (if somewhat obvious) ideas:Don’t hold people to impossible standards.Let your partner finish talking before you talk.A couple should ask each other for everything they want, and then work out what they can actually provide.You should be practical about what you need. It is important to communicate these needs to each other, asking if your partner is getting what he or she needs.Sex is something that should happen regularly as a way to provide for each other as a couple and remain connected.Recognize when “pumpkin time” arrives—when it is inappropriate to ask for sex.Help your partner as much as you can.Plan ahead, so you don't need to be saved from a situation by your partner too often.And here are the main words of the “Queen’s Code.” The author gives these words to be used by women to talk to men.• provide• help• need• save• hero Read Online The Queen's Code Download The Queen's Code The Queen's Code PDF The Queen's Code Mobi Free Reading The Queen's Code Download Free Pdf The Queen's Code PDF Online The Queen's Code Mobi Online The Queen's Code Reading Online The Queen's Code Read Online Alison A. Armstrong Download Alison A. Armstrong Alison A. Armstrong PDF Alison A. Armstrong Mobi Free Reading Alison A. Armstrong Download Free Pdf Alison A. 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